{"id":122,"date":"2014-04-28T21:26:32","date_gmt":"2014-04-29T05:26:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/biz141.inmotionhosting.com\/~akweko6\/sacollins.com\/wp\/?p=122"},"modified":"2014-04-28T22:05:17","modified_gmt":"2014-04-29T06:05:17","slug":"when-porn-blurs-the-line-nsfw","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sacollins.com\/blog-wp\/?p=122","title":{"rendered":"When porn blurs the line… [NSFW]"},"content":{"rendered":"

So I’ve been trolling one of my favorite sites. Just looking for some hot inspiration to get the creative juices flowing, ya know? And I<\/strong><\/span> don’t necessarily mean\u00a0my<\/em> juices, although I’m a guy and it’s a pinterest site for gay porn so I guess some of that is bound to happen. I’m a dude, it’s what we do. Well, Pingay is my go-to for a little creative input I need from time to time. But there are enough blogs about porn. What I want<\/strong><\/span> is to talk about something a little bent from that horn dog gimme porn or I’ll die scenario. I am a storyteller. Porn isn’t about stories (necessarily). It’s about sex. And to be specific, I am talking about the<\/strong><\/span> male on male variety.<\/p>\n

But that’s not the thrust<\/strong><\/span> of this little ramble. And\u00a0of<\/strong><\/span> course I have a few other sites besides Pingay that I troll for some man on man stimulation. I mean it’s more than just the massive build of his<\/strong><\/span> body. More than the allure of his face. Even more than the prodigious<\/strong><\/span> endowment of his bone<\/strong><\/span>. Though between<\/strong><\/span> you and me, it doesn’t hurt to spend time contemplating and imagining what I could do with all of those men on that site. Sure I’m married, and the hubby is definitely number one. Always will be. But I am a writer of M\/M romance and erotica so my<\/strong><\/span> take on how two men come together is rather important to me. The looks of their eyes when they display their wanton lust for another man. The color of his cheeks<\/strong><\/span> when he becomes aroused by the guy he’s grinding against.<\/p>\n

But lately, while I like the animalistic rut of say Treasure Island Media’s offerings, I found that there’s another porn studio that’s providing something rather unique – and<\/strong><\/span> I am finding it far more erotic to watch than straight up (pardon the expression) gay porn. It’s not just some guy grunting as he<\/strong><\/span> bangs his way into oblivion. I know a guy generally doesn’t care where he gets<\/strong><\/span> his rocks off. There’s actually a story there – and it’s quite alluring. If I had to choose<\/strong><\/span>, oddly enough I think I would generally go with the more erotic offering. Perhaps that’s the writer in me. I am not saying which<\/strong><\/span> one is better than the other. That’s not my rant here. And I am not saying that we need to pair<\/strong><\/span> them up necessarily. \u00a0Hard core slam fuck fest of<\/strong><\/span> gay man on man breeding or something just as scintillating yet with an erotically charged intro to really put some perspective on things. Even a bit of humor that’ll have your cheeks<\/strong><\/span> a little bit warmer (along with other parts of your body). \u00a0A cornucopia of eroticism to plunder<\/strong><\/span>. \u00a0Normally I wouldn’t be into it. Not because I am a let’s cut to the chase sort of guy either, its just that the guys in these flicks are generally gay for pay and can barely speak – they’re hired for their looks and their sexual prowess, not their intellect and panache in front of a camera. Or so I<\/strong><\/span> thought. \u00a0I was surprised that a gay porn studio wasn’t just<\/strong><\/span> another gay porn studio. I found it left me want<\/span><\/strong>ing more…<\/p>\n

Of course it<\/strong><\/span> didn’t mean I had to stave off the other. But to <\/strong><\/span>fuck without some context or not was the question roiling around in my head. There was no reason why a scripted and well acted piece of porn couldn’t be<\/strong><\/span> engaging in that way. As long as it ended in an explosion of male testosterone and erupting man milk. Two powerful well toned or muscled bodies colliding in a<\/strong><\/span> sexual battle of want and desire. In short, a BIG HOT MESS<\/strong><\/span>.<\/p>\n

CockyBoys has a series of movies that appeal to this more erotic, get to know your models aspect to it. And, while scripted, it’s surprisingly well acted – even for a porn actor.<\/p>\n

I watched one recently with Colby Keller. I don’t know why I am drawn to this guy but he has a sparkle in his eye that catches my attention.<\/p>\n

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Colby Keller in all his stunning glory…<\/p><\/div>\n

Maybe it’s his ease in front of the camera? Maybe it’s his balls to the wall out there in your face sexuality? Perhaps because he’s unabashedly who he is. Maybe that’s the greatest allure of all. Confidence without being cocky. Where confidence is still sexy. Still tangible, still within reach.<\/p>\n

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Colby Keller (seated), Gabriel Clark sandwich JD Phoenix from CockyBoy’s “A Thing of Beauty”<\/em> Series.<\/p><\/div>\n

Another is the Anthony Romero and Austin Wilde pairing in several CockyBoy videos. That series is very erotic as it is sexual. I like the series very much. Whether or not it’s real, it behaves like it is. The actors both acknowledge they’re in the business. They both acknowledge what being in porn\u00a0and\u00a0<\/em>being in a relationship means for them.<\/p>\n

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\"Cockyboys

Austin Wilde (left) and his ‘boyfriend’ Anthony Romero share an intimate moment.<\/p><\/div>\n

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It’s a rather interesting approach. I was quite surprised that it worked on so many levels. For one, you get about 3 or 4 minutes of them just talking very intimately with the camera, in other words, you, and tell you a bit about how they met, how it works for them to both be in the business but how the ‘work’ remains at work and they are there for each other after all is done with the shoot. It’s a very intimate and revealing portrait. And I realize that it may just all be make believe for the viewer. Or it may in fact be real, the guys are that good at playing the part. There is a whole series of videos that explore what this ‘relationship’ is like under these circumstances. If it’s scripted, then it’s worlds away from standard porn fair – gay or straight or anything in between. Who cares if it’s fake. If\u00a0feels\u00a0<\/em> believable. As writers of male\/male erotica, isn’t that what we’re after as well?<\/p>\n

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\"Austin

Austin WIlde fucks his ‘real-life’<\/em> lover Anthony Romero in a Cocyboys porn series highlighting ‘real-life’ couples who work in the business<\/p><\/div>\n

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I really like these three guys (Keller, Romero, and Wilde). They are serious business men in the porn industry but they seem to have their heads screwed on straight (so to speak). Keller even blogs about his experiences at colbykeller.com<\/span><\/a><\/span>. His blog is introspective, very bright and intelligent (a sexy guy who is unashamed of his sexuality and very intelligent on top – Jesus, he’s practically a god among porn men). It doesn’t hurt one iota that he’s auburn\/ginger and a scruffy man’s man either. That’s hella hot no matter how you cut it. That he has a brain, self deprecating humor and a dry wicked wit, just makes him rather stellar in my book. He ain’t bad to watch having sex either.<\/p>\n

Keller even had a scene with Anthony Romero which was also hot. It played a bit with the whole Anthony in a relationship and in the biz thing a bit. So Cockyboys<\/span><\/a><\/span> definitely keep an eye to their own catalog and the worlds they’re trying to build. I am finding this type of porn very inspiring. It’s erotic, it’s filled with testosterone and manliness and at times lust driven hard core, flesh slapping’ sex. Now that’s my kind of inspiration.<\/p>\n

If porn would do a bit more of this then I’m all for it. The story doesn’t have to drag on forever (though there is a series that Cockyboys did called ‘The Haunting’ that was quite interesting). Very paranormal in both texture and its deep use of homo-eroticism. Sexy as all fuck. My kinda horror flick. Yeah, I am sooooo over the whole guy needs a girl to be a man thing. So 1960’s Mad Men. Over it – BIG TIME!<\/p>\n

And that’s a very good thing in my book…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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